Teaching children to swim not only equips them with important life skills but also opens the door to a thrilling watery world for your little one. Do parents want their child to master more challenging swimming styles such as backstroke and butterfly? If the answer is yes, then this article is for you! Today, Mykingdom will join parents in exploring step-by-step techniques for backstroke and butterfly, two advanced strokes that help children develop holistically, both physically and mentally.
Benefits of teaching children backstroke and butterfly
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Improve physical fitness: Increase strength of the back muscles, shoulders, and the whole body.
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Develop deep breathing ability: Help boost endurance and improve the respiratory system.
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Enhance motor coordination: These two strokes require coordination of arms, legs, and breathing, training motor planning and quick reflexes.
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Lay a foundation for advanced sports: A solid stepping stone if your child loves advanced swimming classes or competitions.
Five steps to teaching children backstroke easily
Backstroke is one of the unique swimming strokes, helping children relax and feel very “chill” as they can look up at the sky while swimming. It is also a wonderful technique to strengthen the back and abdominal muscles of the child.

Getting familiar with the back float position
Help your child lie on their back, relaxing on the water’s surface. You can use a back float or lightly support the head.
Kicking with proper technique
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Kick from the hips, legs straight, toes pointed. The child should practice first with a kickboard.
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Common mistakes: bending the knees or not keeping the legs straight reduce effectiveness. Parents can hold the child’s hands while practicing kicking to adjust the leg rhythm.

Arm circles for backstroke
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Arms move in circular patterns from the head down to the hips.
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Palm faces down when entering the water, then faces up at the end. Have the child practice arms on land first to get used to the motion.
Coordinating arms – legs – breathing
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Kicks are steady, while the arms circle continuously.
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Mouth and nose stay above the water surface, making breathing easier than in other strokes. Parents should guide the child to breathe slowly, evenly, and naturally. The child should wear swimming goggles to protect the eyes and a swim cap to keep the hair tidy.
Technique adjustments
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Observe carefully if the child swims with a drift, the arms/legs may not be in sync.
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Remind the child to keep the body straight and focus on a steady rhythm.
Five steps to teaching children butterfly stroke with challenge
Butterfly requires high coordination and full-body strength. Although harder than backstroke, it is a beautiful stroke and brings many benefits to a child’s development.

Getting used to full-body undulation
Practice dolphin-like undulations on land first, then go into the water and swim in a pool to train the feeling of undulation. A leg-kicking float will be a useful helper for the child at the start.
Dolphin kick
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Both legs kick simultaneously in a wave-like motion.
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Common mistakes: kicking is not even, knees bend too much.
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Use a dedicated float to help the child focus on kicking at the correct rhythm.
Arm circles for butterfly stroke
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Circling the arms into a Y shape, then pushing back powerfully.
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Drawing the arms out of the water with proper technique is the key to not exhausting energy. The child should practice arm movements on land to master the basic motion.

Full-body coordination
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One arm cycle accompanied by two leg kicks: one when the hand enters the water, one when the hand pushes back.
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Child breathes when the head just rises above the water, before the hand enters the water.
Refinement and error correction
- Common mistakes: not undulating enough, arms – legs out of step.
- Parents, be patient in guiding, give the child time to practice and recover.
Mykingdom suggests high-quality, highly stretchable swimwear to keep your child comfortable during practice. A towel wrap after swimming will also be very useful for your child’s health.
A plan to teach children backstroke and butterfly
Here is a suggested two-month plan for teaching backstroke and butterfly.
Weeks 1–2:
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Get comfortable in the water in a back-floating position.
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Practice dolphin kicks on the back.
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Learn to balance and relax the body.
Weeks 3–4:
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Learn arm movements in backstroke.
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Combine arms + legs to move a short distance (5–10 m).
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Practice even, natural breathing with the face oriented up.

Weeks 5–6:
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Get used to the dolphin kick for butterfly.
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Practice butterfly arm movements with circular motions, with a powerful water push.
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Develop proper breathing rhythm to avoid running out of breath.
Weeks 7–14:
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Full-body coordination: arms + legs + breathing in butterfly swimming.
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Gradually increase swimming distance (10–20 m).
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Alternate practicing backstroke to reinforce technique.
The plan should be flexible according to each child’s ability. Prioritize comfort, do not push, and always create a fun atmosphere throughout the process of teaching children to swim.
Tip: Parents should record from a high, water-level angle so the child can learn to adjust to the correct posture.
How to tell if your child is ready for backstroke and butterfly?
Don’t push the child to learn advanced techniques too early. Here are some signs that your child is ready:
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The child can float on the water for at least 10 seconds without assistance.
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Knows basic kicking (front crawl or breaststroke).
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Is not afraid of face-down or back-floating on the water.
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Curious and excited when seeing others swim backstroke or butterfly.
Teaching children to swim: Tailoring to age
Not every child can access butterfly and backstroke techniques at the same age. Adjusting the curriculum by age will help the child develop more naturally.
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From 3–6 years: Focus on getting acquainted with water, back-floating, and simple kicking. Practice undulation and dry butterfly arms; no need for full coordination yet.
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From 7–9 years: Begin linking movements into sequences. Let the child swim short distances with rests between turns. Focus on correcting technique and keeping the child engaged in learning.
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From 10 years old and up: A structured plan can be applied, challenging them with longer swimming distances, and encouraging participation in specialty classes to consolidate skills.

Tips to help your child stay persistent when learning advanced swimming
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Small rewards after each session, such as gummies or sticker charts, to make the child eager to practice.
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Use fun music to keep the child excited during practice.
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Always stay nearby to provide support so the child feels safe.
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If the child grows bored, alternate between breaststroke, front crawl, and backstroke to reduce pressure.
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Always create a fun atmosphere, avoiding pushing or excessive pressure.
Parents, please prepare complete children’s swimming gear to help your child learn with more enthusiasm and effectiveness. dụng cụ bơi trẻ em đầy đủ để bé học bơi hứng thú và hiệu quả hơn nhé.
Teaching children to swim techniques such as backstroke and butterfly are not simple, but they are not beyond reach if parents have a plan, understand their child, and always accompany them in the right way. Step by step, every kick rhythm, every breathing pattern, correctly practiced, will create a wonderful journey for your child in the world of water. Let Mykingdom accompany you and your child on that journey!


